Stop Your Divorce - Bring Your Marriage Back From The Brink Of Divorce!

A) We try our best to keep people out of this program who are not ready. We don’t want you to waste your time and money, if you’re not a good fit for the program and it is not a good fit for you.

That’s why we created the “Front of the Line” call option, where for a nominal investment of $75, you can speak one-on-one with Larry Bilotta to see if this program is a good fit for you. Larry will help “put the pieces together” of the recent events that have happened with your spouse to give you an idea of how you got to this point and what you can do about it.

If after speaking with Larry, you decide the program is right for you, we will credit back your $75 towards the price of the program, making your call with Larry essentially free.

If you are interested in speaking with Larry, you can sign up for this hour call here. This call is usually scheduled within 24 to 48 hours of your order, depending on Larry’s schedule. Here is what one woman recently had to say about this call who ended up realizing she was not a good fit for this program.

Q) My Spouse Has Filed For Divorce and Says “It’s Over”. Is There Any Hope or Is It Already Too Late?

A) This is one of the most popular questions we get… “Is it too late?”

Very often the spouse that wants to save the marriage waits far too long, doing all the wrong things they were programmed to do from their parents that end up destroying their marriage just like their father/mother did before them.

If you waited too long, then it’s not about the marriage anymore. It’s about whether you want that person in your life again. If the two of you have children, you will always be connected, so it’s up to you if you want to get a new relationship started. Don’t think about divorce or no divorce, because divorce is now just a formality.

There is a way to bring your spouse back to you once again, even after the legal marriage is over. That’s because this is not about marriage. Marriage is a legal structure for society to operate. This is not about saving that structure, it is about the person. The person cannot be replaced. You can always get another legal structure, but you cannot replace that person. S/he CAN be won again. You can start to attract your spouse all over again. It will take time, but you must learn how. Right now you have no tools or understanding to accomplish this.

Is this program right for you? Here’s an easy way to know for sure: The Environment Changer program is right for you if you answer an immediate and resounding “YES” to the question “Do I want this woman/man?”

You will have to become you at your best, not you at your worst in order to win your spouse back. That’s what this program is designed for and it does not at all deal with behavior. It deals with the SOURCE of behavior. You cannot win your spouse back through what you say and do. Like the airlines say, you have to “put your own mask on first” before you can even begin to think about winning your spouse back.

What you say and do now, your spouse takes as a threat and an offense no matter how good it is. Your spouse sees you as the ENEMY. Any attempts you make to save the marriage at this point will be met with rejection and criticism from your spouse because s/he feels “if you could have, you would have”, and now s/he is likely seeking personal happiness over anything else.

The only way to get your spouse back in your life again is to create an environment where your spouse feels SAFE enough with you. Right now your spouse feels pressure and spouses who want a divorce RUN from pressure. The way you will win your spouse back is by changing the vibration you give off every day and that is not about behavior, it is about the SOURCE of behavior. In this program, you will uncover that source. That’s how you will win your spouse again if you really do want your spouse back.

How Can I Rebuild My Marriage if We Don't Have Contact and We Are Not Talking?

There have been studies done for years between two people who were separated, intimately involved and had an emotional connection with one another.

In some of these tests, there were couples separated by thousands of miles. The studies demonstrated that not only could these people sense emotional changes in their significant other, but each of them were affected by changes in each other’s energy. They could sense something different when a change in the other’s emotional state occurred.

In the invisible realm of energy, there is no time and there is no space. That’s why in the studies, though thousands of miles apart, the other person in the relationship felt an emotional change at the exact same second it occured. This is what the Environment Changer course is really all about. It is about becoming a great manager in the world of energy.

The majority of people don't know anything about energy because they believe everything is physical. If they can't see it, hear it, taste it, touch it, then it doesn't exist. But if a surgeon cut open your body, he wouldn’t find you. He would find blood, bones and organs but he wouldn’t find your hopes, dreams and personality – in other words, he wouldn’t find YOU.

Most people don't understand what quantum physics has demonstrated about the world of energy. This course exposes you to a whole different way of life that shows you how to change your own emotions and then influence the emotional condition of the people closest to you. This is what leads to getting what you want in life and no longer being a pinball who “hopes” for change.

You will typically ask “Is there is any hope?” but I would tell you that hope is for the powerless. I "hope" I get a raise. I "hope" it doesn't rain. I "hope" I win the lottery. When you don't have power you need hope.

When you become an environment changer, you have power and then you don’t need hope because you can influence people without saying a word.

Q) How Soon Can I Get Started? Do I Have to Wait For Materials to Arrive?

As soon as you enroll in the program, you’ll receive an email with the first two steps of the program. Once you complete those two steps, we will send you your login for your materials and you can get started right away.

This course is self-paced meaning that you can complete the materials at your own pace and every Friday, you can speak one-on-one in a group call with Larry Bilotta during the afternoon or evening Q&A sessions at 2pm and 6pm Central time. If you can’t make the live call, you can submit your questions ahead of time in the member website and Larry will answer your question on the next Friday call. The recording is then made available to you within 24-48 hours of the live call.

Cutting to the chase: You can dive into the materials as fast as you’d like. Your pace is only limited by your own schedule.

Q) Will your system work if I live overseas in a different time zone?

A) Yes, we have many students enrolled in the program who live in various countries and time zones such as Australia, New Zealand, the United Kingdom, South Africa, France, Germany, Canada, the United States and many more. There are live Q&A sessions in both the afternoon and evening which has proven to work well with most students schedules.

Q) What Happens If I am Not Able to Make a Live Call?

A) All calls are recorded and made available to you in the membership area within 24 to 48 hours of the live call. If you have a question, you can submit that question on the site at any time during the week and then all submitted questions are printed out for Larry each Friday. During the first part of the afternoon live call, Larry answers these submitted questions first before opening up the call to live participants so that everyone gets their questions answered whether they are on the live calls or not.

Q) How soon can I expect to see results with your system?

A) That really depends on how committed you are to doing this and how good of a student you will be in the program. We often receive the question, “What are my chances at succeeding in this and getting my spouse back?”

Your success is not based on chance. We are all so chance/lottery minded, we think our situation is some kind of chance we intend to gamble on. We ask about our “chances” of the marriage getting better. But a troubled marriage is NEVER based on “our chances”. It is based ONLY on the childhoods of the man and the wife. The more troubled they are, the faster the couple will self-destruct. The more positive their two childhoods, the longer they last and the happier they will be. No need for a chance or gambling here. The only thing that creates a dramatic change for the better is a single spouse who gains complete control over their emotions by becoming an Environment Changer.

Q) How do I actually get the program? Is there a combination of conference calls and online materials? Is something shipped to me?

A) Great question. After you enroll in the program online, (you can enroll directly here for men and here for women) you’ll receive an email with your first two assignments which are:

1) An agreement form to sign or fax back to us

2) An online husband or wife application you’ll submit online

Once these two first steps are completed, we’ll send you your login to access the materials and you can get started right away.

The majority of materials are delivered online, so you don’t have to wait for your materials to arrive. There are some materials that are shipped to you, but you won’t need those until much later on in the program. Those materials are discretely shipped to you in a standard USPS priority mail box.

The way the program works is simple.

Each week, you’ll go through the materials at your own pace and when you have questions, you can submit them in the student portal or join in on the live question and answer call, hosted by Larry Bilotta, each Friday. This will give you the opportunity to ask Larry any and all questions you have, at any point in the program. If you have an immediate question, you can reach out to our staff by calling (262) 397-8766 to get a response right away.

There are other students in the course who have been where you are right now and come out on the other side with their spouse back at home. These students have applied the same materials you’ll have access to and are more than willing to reach out to a new student in need when you need some extra inspiration.

You are NOT in this alone. Larry, his staff and your fellow students are here to help you succeed!

Finally, you might feel better to see some of the other people who are just like you who have had great success (and done amazing things to their marriages) with the Environment Changer program. If you’d like to see success stories from real Environment Changer students, you can check them out here: Success Stories

Or you might be ready to skip all of that and get started now. If so, just click the “Order now” button you see below and you can get started on the materials that will help you completely change the environment of your marriage along with your own emotions in just a few short minutes

And one more thing, we don’t want students in this program who are not a good fit for the program, so you will get a full 7 days to decide if this program is for you. If not, just call our office and we will issue you a refund.

No hard feelings, no harm done. Not everyone is at the stage in life where they are ready to take control of their emotions, influence others around them and protect the emotional security of their children. But those who are ready - know it.

If you listen to your intuition, you’ll never make the wrong decision.

Q) Is Your Service Strictly Confidential?

A) Yes, both the men and women's class portals are 100% secure and not accessible to the general public. All call recordings are added into the password protected area of the website.

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Q) Does This Program Take a Psychological Approach?

A) There is one major problem with psychology. Its words and labels create a vast canyon of separation between psychologists and the rest of us. Psychologists primarily seem to struggle to get to the point and show little ability to make the complex simple. Our approach explains the truth about how people are wired emotionally and does it in a way that anyone can understand. This course clearly helps you understand the source of human behavior so you can overcome troublesome habits, values and beliefs and most importantly, eliminate your negative emotions the moment they appear.

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Q) Besides Your Own Life Experiences, What Do You Base Your Foundation For Helping Others? What Source Do You Build Your Belief System On?

A) The material delivered in the Environment Changer Program is based on the most recent research discovered about the brain and emotions. For example, what you’ll learn is supported by Daniel Goleman’s well-researched book Emotional Intelligence. The contents of this program are also supportive of the Christian faith and many couples with this world view have said that the program deepened their faith.

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Q) Are Your Methods Reliable? I Need Accountability In Moving Forward To Improve My Struggling Marriage.

A) One of the most important keys to The Environment Changer Program is accountability. Throughout the entire program, you’ll learn about your most positive motivations, how your childhood affects your marriage and how to eliminate your negative feelings. The materials in this program will assist you in setting specific goals that are focused on how you will become true to yourself, while you let go of the insecurities that create self-centered behavior. If you want to grow or move forward in your marriage, you will need to learn how to be happy with yourself. The Environment Changer Program will help you do exactly that.

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Q) My Spouse Has Told Me "I Love You, But I'm Not In Love With You Anymore." Is There Any Hope For Us Or Is It Already Too Late?

A) This is one of the most popular questions we get… “Is it too late?”

Very often the spouse that wants to save the marriage waits far too long, doing all the wrong things they were programmed to do from their parents that end up destroying their marriage just like their father/mother did before them.

If you waited too long, then it’s not about the marriage anymore. It’s about whether you want that person in your life again. If the two of you have children, you will always be connected, so it’s up to you if you want to get a new relationship started. Don't think about divorce or no divorce, because divorce is now just a formality.

You should know however, that many people give up too soon, assuming their spouse has reached the point where they are emotionally dead, when they have not yet reached that point. When a spouse has reached that point, it is business as usual. He or she has made the decision to divorce, cleaned out the bank accounts, and is barely recognizable as the person you married. They are indifferent about the marriage and have moved from the stage where they are not sure what they want to the phase where they’ve made up their mind and "the kids will be fine".

If your spouse is at the phase where s/he is emotionally dead, the question you need to ask yourself is "Do I want this woman/man?"

There is a way to bring your spouse back to you once again, even after the legal marriage is over. That's because this is not about marriage. Marriage is a legal structure for society to operate. This is not about saving that structure, it is about the person. The person cannot be replaced. You can always get another legal structure, but you cannot replace that person. S/he CAN be won again. You can start to attract your spouse all over again. It will take time, but you must learn how. Right now you have no tools or understanding to accomplish this.

Is this program right for you? Here’s an easy way to know for sure: The Environment Changer program is right for you if you answer an immediate and resounding "YES" to the question "Do I want this woman/man?"

You will have to become you at your best, not you at your worst in order to win your spouse back. That's what this program is designed for and it does not at all deal with behavior. It deals with the SOURCE of behavior. You cannot win your spouse back through what you say and do.

In fact, what you say and do now, your spouse takes as a threat and an offense no matter how good it is. If your spouse has already reached the emotionally dead point, the only way to get him or her back in your life again is to eliminate your negative feelings and show (NOT TELL) him or her that you are a different man/woman and wait for your spouse to come back to you. Any attempts you make to save the marriage at this point will be met with rejection and criticism from your spouse because s/he feels “if you could have, you would have”, and now s/he is likely seeking personal happiness over anything else.

The way you will win your spouse back is by changing the vibration you give off every day and that is not about behavior, it is about the SOURCE of behavior. In this program, you will uncover that source. That's how you will win your spouse again if you really do want this woman/man.

Q) What is the Success Rate of this Program with a Single Spouse Participating Alone?

A) Let’s say there was only ONE husband who was dead set on getting a divorce, moved out, got a house and then changed his mind on the marriage. What would that do for you? Let’s say there were 22 husbands who did this? What would that do for you? I say this because we are all so chance/lottery/ minded, we think our situation is some kind of chance we intend to gamble on.

We ask about our “chances” of the marriage getting better. But a troubled marriage is NEVER based on “our chances”. It is based ONLY on the childhoods of the man and the wife. The more troubled they are, the faster the couple will self-destruct. The more positive their two childhoods, the longer they last and the happier they will be. No need for a chance gamble here. The only thing that creates a dramatic change for the better is a single spouse who becomes an Environment Changer.

Q) How Do I Know Your Program Really Works?

A) For couples who have made many past efforts to improve their marriage, it often causes them to wonder if there is something that really does work long term. Rather than “selling” you on the program, for those who are sincere about it, we like to have you talk to couples who have been helped by the process. If you want to talk to a real couple who has actually experienced the full program, we’d be glad to coordinate that for you. Contact us and indicate within your email that you are interested in speaking with another couple by phone.

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Q) How IS Your Program Different From Marriage Counseling?

A) Classic marriage counseling focuses on finding problems in order to fix them. Unfortunately, this approach has not worked for marriage in the last 40 years. The Environment Changer Program has a completely different and much more positive focus. We want to show you what’s right about the two of you, how you’re motivated differently and why that’s good, not bad. We never get into “who said what to whom” and we never dredge up the past or attempt to place blame. Dwelling on problems only creates more problems.

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Q) Do You Offer A Payment Plan?

A) The Environment Changer Program offers a monthly payment program that is the equivalent of a monthly car payment ($297 once a month, for 4 months). The Environment Changer Program is the vehicle that will take your relationship and your family to a whole new level of relating and communicating that you have never experienced before. Individuals who are ready to take this investment in their marriage are serious about what matters most. They see their marriage as far more valuable than their car. Couples who are not ready or willing to commit to their marriage will often consider their car more valuable than their marriage. (The program can also be paid in a single payment of $997, saving you almost $200.)

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Q) If I Order Your Program Through Your Web site, How Long Will I Have To Wait To Be Contacted And Begin The Program?

A) Once you enroll in the program, you will immediately receive an email with the first two steps that need to be completed before you can begin the program. Once you complete these steps, we will send you your login information so you can access the EC Members area and get started on your assignments. At that time, your materials will also be shipped to you (you'll use these later on in the program.)

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Q) What will the charge say on my billing statement?

A) The charge on your billing statement will say either LIFE DISCOV or Life Discoveries Inc. Neenah 207-258-5858.

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Q) Where Can I Sign Up For Your Program?

A) Here are the direct links to enroll in the program:
Men's Environment Changer program enrollment
Women's Environment Changer program enrollment

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Q) My Spouse Has Engaged In An Affair. Does Your Program Help Couples Overcome Infidelity?

A) Infidelity is a typical result of a neglected relationship. We see it as just another sign of two people remaining ignorant of marriage success principles that they never learned. Infidelity does not guarantee the end of a marriage and is often the inappropriate cause for both spouses to wake up to a renewed desire to learn how to be married the right way.

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Q) I Am Interested In Your Program, But My Spouse Is Not Willing To Participate, Will That Be A Problem? Can Your Program Truly Help Us Even If She/He Refuses To Participate?

A) Absolutely. The Environment Changer program was specifically created to help individual spouses transform themselves from the inside out, thereby positively affecting their "leaving spouse". The Environment Changer Program makes it possible for only one spouse to make positive efforts to change the environment in their marriage and stop a divorce without their spouses' participation. Students in this class have proven this to be true again and again, despite what popular opinion might lead you to believe.

On a side note, it is important you realize you must be 100% committed to your marriage and willing to be a 'good student' in this program. We are not looking for individuals to join this program who already have "one foot out the door".

If on the other hand, your spouse does want to go through the program with you, they can participate in the program separately since we have one class for men and another for women.

Most couples do not feel safe enough to learn within the same environment. With the structure of these separate classes, the two of you can each learn in an environment where you will not be distracted or discouraged by each other's negativity, making for a much more positive learning environment. When one spouse enrolls in the program, we do offer a 50% discount for an additional spouse to participate in their own respective class as well.

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Q) Does Your Program Help With Second Marriage Problems?

A) Second marriages put a couple under far more stain than they ever imagined, especially when children from previous marriages are in the home. Tension can remain high and communication greatly strained. The Environment Changer Program helps husbands and wives in second marriages understand their roles as step parents and the seemingly complex relationship with their stepchildren. There are many ways to do this wrong. The Environment Changer Program teaches you the principles, methods and tools to understand how to reduce the high stress of second marriages and blended families that rarely blend.

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Q) Will Your Program Work If We Are Already In The Process Of Divorce? What If We Have Our Trial Date Already Set? Is My Situation Beyond Repair?

A) The Environment Changer Program is a positive alternative that will help you repair your marriage on your own. The program is also effective for those who are separated and having poor communication. If you are completely committed to your marriage, this program can help you avoid a divorce. If you would like to speak one-on-one with Larry to find out if there is still hope for your marriage, submit your entry to Larry Bilotta's Second Chance program here or reserve your "Front of the Line" pass with Larry for a priority one-hour private consultation. The "Front of the Line" option is a one-time investment of $75 that is available for those who are "on the fence" about whether the Environment Changer program is right for them. If after speaking with Larry for this hour call, you do enroll in the program, we will credit the $75 back to you.

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Q) We Are Engaged To Be Married. Will Your Program Help Us?

A) If this is your first marriage, The Environment Changer Program is a sure way to get your marriage off to a far more secure footing. You will create a strong foundation for your relationship that will help you withstand common “hot button” obstacles such as in laws, financial issues, conflicting values and so many other tests that push marriages to the breaking point. Think of this program as your safe passage through the murky waters that destroy so many other marriages simply because they did not have the knowledge and skills to do things right the first time around.

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Q) What Percent Of Those Who Take The Course Revert Back To Old Behaviors/Patterns Over Time?

A) This is the biggest threat to any marriage building investment…time. The Environment Changer Program has an 88% success rate in saving marriages when both spouses' participate. The 12% are those who gave up on their marriage and were not willing to apply what they learned to their marriage.

While the Environment Changer Program will help you get your marriage "out of the fire", the farther away you get from the material, the more you forget what was making your marriage successful.

We have created a series of support programs that couples or individuals can pursue once they complete the Environment Changer Program to help them stay on track.

The programs vary in length, but your focus will be on continuing to apply the insights you used in the Environment Changer Program to the unique situations and challenges that arrive in daily life.

The success of individual students varies depending on their own willingness to be a good student of what they learn. Students who have the greatest level of motivation and apply what they learn see the best results.

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Q) Does the Environment Changer Program Work With Couples Who Live Outside the USA?

A) Yes it does. We have afternoon and evening classes that can accomodate the schedules of most people overseas. You can call into each group call using a free program for making calls over the internet called Skype. It’s free and easy to download and use, and works with most computers. On average, calls to the U.S. are just under $1 for a full hour. (Best of all, NO international calling charges!) Students are not required to participate in live calls however. All students have the option of submitting their question in the portal if they aren't able to make a live call. All recordings are posted and available within 24-48 hours of the live call in the password protected members portal.

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Q) Will I Be Working With Larry Bilotta Himself Or One Of His Marriage Translators?

A) Every Friday, Larry Bilotta personally conducts all group Tele-Coaching calls, answering all previously submitted questions from the members portal first and then opening up the call for questions for any students on the live call. You will have the ability to interact and ask Larry questions directly on each call.

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Q) What is the Difference Between the Environment Changer Program and Traditional Counseling?

A) Traditional counseling works for some couples, but historically, marriage counseling has failed to keep marriages together. The main reason for this failure is that marriage counseling is based on finding what is wrong with couples and then trying to fix it. Therapists are trained in university programs to believe that if the right questions are asked, the patient will find their own answers. If this were true, hundreds of thousands of practicing therapists would have already lowered our 50% divorce rate, but this has not happened.

What most couples don’t like about this theory is that these ‘questions’ often involve digging deep into your “psyche” by bringing up painful situations from the past. This is especially difficult for a man because men are not “built” to share their emotions.

Couples often tell us that counseling did not work for them because it took the counselor many weeks to even get an understanding of their problems. What couples find most often is that once they focus on their problems, they are no longer able to think of solutions.

By contrast, the Environment Changer Program uses a set of unique online tools and materials that clearly explain exactly what you need to do to overcome the biggest obstacles in your marriage. We want to show you what’s right about the two of you, how you’re motivated differently and why that’s good, not bad. We never get into “who said what to whom” and we never dredge up the past or attempt to place blame. Dwelling on problems only creates more problems. As the two of you focus on your strengths, your problems evolve into solutions.

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Q) Will the Environment Changer Program Conflict With My Religious Beliefs?

A) Students with a variety of different faiths and backgrounds have completed the Environment Changer Program and we have found that none of the material conflicts with their religious foundations. In fact, students are amazed at how it helps them see their faith in a way that helps them apply, strengthen their faith and live what they have already believed.

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Q) Would You Recommend I Still See My Counselor While Participating in the Environment Changer Program?

A) Most couples find that they make greater progress in their therapy work while they are going through the Environment Changer Program. Psychiatrist and therapists alike have commented that the Environment Changer Program augments and supports what they are trying to accomplish with their patients. But ultimately, it needs to be your own decision on whether or not you continue with your counseling while participating in the Environment Changer Program.

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Q) Does This Program Really Work?

A) Yes it really does. If you apply what you learn and historically have a history of applying what you learn, you will see results from the program. Students who have a high level of motivation to solve their problems will see results the quickest. Listen to real life success stories of men and women who have completed the program here.

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Q) Can I Order By Phone?

A) Yes, if you are uncomfortable with ordering online, you can order by telephone by calling (262) 397-8766 during the business hours of 8:00am-5:30pm M-F Central time. We will process your credit card manually over the phone through our Secure and Trusted Gateway Merchant Authorize.net.

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Q) Is an Internet Connection Required?

A) Yes, you do need an internet connection. You can participate if you have just a Smartphone, or iPad as long as you have a steady internet connection.

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